Ugh i feel like i've been asking for so much advice lately?

Alright yahoo people i need some help from some adults with wisdom no ignorant and childish comments need not apply . Um where do i begin well lately i've been having some issues at home and i've been coming on here more then ever to get advice from people and its been very helpful to me in the past few days. Now i have a very rocky relationship with my dad we don't get along for the most part , now for some damn reason he feels its his business to always ask me about my finances and about my unemployment that i was receiving. We have gotten into countless fights verbally and i try to understand why he needs to be in my business all the time. Then this morning he got on my case about a job saying and that he was going to get me a monthly bus pass so that i do some job hunting. Now i have a job its a legit work from home job for a software development company the only thing is , is that i haven't started my training yet because you need a checking account for your clients. So now that i'm 23 years old i know damn well that my behind needs to leave because being here isn't conducive to my life at all . For some reason he thinks that he can still control my life all the time and well that's how he was raised over in trinidad i guess. The men control all females and i hate that and i've told him he needs to stop its very unhealthy to be that way. Everyone on here has been so helpful to me with my situations and i do appreciate all the people who don't even know me try to help me out , its very kind of them. So yahoo peeps what should i do , i mean i do have a plan of action to move down to Fl for college and to start over. I definitely cannot get a loan for an apartment because i have a low credit score which is horrendous lol . But i just need some help in trying to figure out how to tell him that i already have a job , but i know he's gonna say something ignorant and rude like he always does. I've tried for at least 10 years to make this father , daughter relationship work out and i've told countless family members that its not worth it to me anymore. Its like the old saying '' Its like beating a dead horse'' im so over trying and trying to make this work and to have him see me as an adult , i did my first semester of college even though i waited since 07 to go i finally did it and i feel proud of myself. But he didn't say anything like im proud you or anything like that , at least my oldest sister said it to me which im glad about. If anyone can give me some sound advice i'd appreciate it lots. I don't understand why he's always in my financial business either it feels awkward and out of line. Especially now that im 23 it's very inappropriate and all my friends think that he cares but that's not the case , when i was getting my unemployment i never got to keep it to myself at all. He'd take it and say it was rent and i wasn't paying monthly it was every week and yet he complained that i needed to move out and that's what i saving for. So i know if i do tell him about this job he'll start asking for money again , now im going to say this , the house we have isn't his yet . Him and his gf are renting to buy and on there rent thing they have me as a child and i know that's illegal for a fact and that's why they didn't ever give me a receipt from me paying them. What can i do to better this situation im in , i know i need to save the money ill be making and leave here asap because it's always dramatic being here its like im living in a Novelas so ultra dramatic. Anyone who has ever been in something like this could really help me out. Thanks guys